Top 5 Reasons Men Have Problems Dating

The most common complaint I get from women about men is that we do not know how to step up and be a.... Well... A man!! I'm a firm believer that when addressing a problem you always look for the commonality in the problems. This one is obvious, men do not know how to be men anymore. So I decided to dig deeper and provide you with the "Top 5 Reasons Men Have Problems Dating."

1. Role Reversal: The 2010 woman is running things and in a major way. Women now have a voice and will not hesitate to speak it. Coming from a world where men have always rules this is quite a change for my testosterone carrying brothers. There is no "do as I say because I am man" mind set anymore. Women are making more money than men, women are in higher positions than men, & women are not accepting the flaws of old man. The sorry, just doing enough, lazy attitudes of man will not fly anymore. Guys have to step up accept that women demand more from us and will not bend.
2. No Positive Role Model As A Child: We all know that my generation is the "Fatherless Generation" and suffer because of it, but what we do have is a negative role model. Now the smart guys figured out that hey this is what NOT to follow. While others thought this negative example was the correct way to be a man. Never the less if a man burns his hand enough he will soon learn that this stove is hot and not to touch it anymore.
3. No Commitment: This is no new problem for men once so ever. The problem is just no longer accepted my our women. Before, when man was king women had no choice but to accept this lack of commitment. I mean after all what were they going to do, move out, find another man so they can be in the same boat? Now in 2010 women do have this option to do things by their self hints the quote "I can do bad all by myself." Men have to commit and mean it.
4. Poor Communication: Again another famous trait or lack there of for men. We are not good at talking about OUR feelings. We can discuss your feelings, business feelings, or any other feeling in the world BUT our own. It makes us feel exposed and weak and that is not a place a man is not going to willingly put himself in. The major difference is, NOW we are no long king so we are forced to be diplomatic.
5.  Lack Focus: The simple mind of man is so easily disrupted. We get side tracked by the smallest of things normally located in between the legs of a women. Hell in today's world sometimes even in between the legs of a man. We will be on a good path and something comes along that is new and unknown and our little minds can't resist. Again nothing new about men but no longer accepted because women can not and will not deal with it. They would prefer to be by them self than to deal with that nonsense

Lesson Learned:
The only new problem is the Role Reversal. Clearly all the other problems have been around for years. The only difference is that women do not have to deal with this poor performance from man. We will get it together one day just not today. 

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