18 Young, Playboy Grown

     Fresh out of high school with your entire life in front of you, what to do, what to do? Go to school or maybe work at your parents’ local business? Don’t worry little lady you have plenty of time to make your decision. Your body has curves you’ve never seen before and the guys are giving you a ton of attention. Being your first time at this thing called life you are not really sure how to handle all of this new found attention. You might have been somewhat popular in high school but those were just boys. The new attention comes from very grown men that express their lust for you in such a way that is attractive to a young...

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Believing is not Knowing

With each passing year we gain more and more knowledge about the world around us that allows us to discard falsehoods, such as the earth being the center of the universe and the world being a square. At one point we thought Vampires, Witches, & Lycans controlled our woods and people’s beliefs were so strong that they would kill a woman if she was suspected to be a witch. To think is to believe while to know is the truth. More often than not, our beliefs don’t  match up with the truth. The thing that stomps me about the Belief versus Knowing battle is that people seem to think they are one single organism operating in sync with each other....

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$30K Salary With A $500 Belt

$30,000 Salary, $500 Belt Standing in the mirror, profiling, fresh to death because my swag is officially 1K!! I’ve been waiting for the fall season to drop, nobody is gonna be rockin’ this belt. It was a strong price but worth every penny. I need to step out tonight for sure. Let me call my dude so we can get ready to roll out. “Yo, Dee what’s up my dude?” “Aint nothing, what’s up” “Yo, we stepping out tonight right?” “Yea we can do that, where you trying to go” “Anywhere that’s free to get in!!” “Not too many clubs let dudes in free, and if they do it’s a sword fight” “Well, can you cover a brotha at the door?? You know things are...

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Children or Marriage: Which Comes First??

Times are surely different and I don’t believe anybody will argue against that fact. Today’s traditions are not text book as they once where in the past. The evolution of marriage has taken things in a new direction. That which was deeply valued at one point is more of the icing on the cake in present day. So I ask you, what is the foundation in your life? Children or Marriage. Marriage!! Your marriage should always come first with your children following a very close second. Well that is how things used to be I should say. Think about the kissing song:“Boy & Girl sitting in a tree.k-i-s-s-i-n-gfirst comes love then come marriagethen comes...

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Top 5 Reasons Men Have Problems Dating

The most common complaint I get from women about men is that we do not know how to step up and be a.... Well... A man!! I'm a firm believer that when addressing a problem you always look for the commonality in the problems. This one is obvious, men do not know how to be men anymore. So I decided to dig deeper and provide you with the "Top 5 Reasons Men Have Problems Dating." Role Reversal: The 2010 woman is running things and in a major way. Women now have a voice and will not hesitate to speak it. Coming from a world where men have always rules this is quite a change for my testosterone carrying brothers. There is no "do as I say because...

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